Day One: Starting Our Blog

     Hi. My name is Layla. I am almost 26 years old. You don't know me and maybe you don't want to know me. And that's okay. I have Dissociative Identity Disorder. This is not a fun disorder. This is not a choice and there is no cure. I can't change how I am... no matter how much I wish I could. I am pan-sexual and poly-amorous. Up until recently, I was in a poly-amorous relationship with 2 men. My husband and my boyfriend. We will call my husband Chet and my boyfriend Mitch for anonymity's sake.

    Recently, I went through a nasty break-up with Mitch. It didn't start out nasty but it quickly got there.. we split because of our mental health needs. Everything was going well. But then he got his feelings hurt. He started using my trauma and mental health against me and started badmouthing me to anyone who would listen. So I decided that I was going to start blogging. I'm not looking for sympathy. I'm not looking for validation. This blog won't be for anyone else but me.

    That said, welcome. My life has been interesting and I am healing from the trauma. To whoever reads this, thank you for taking the time to read. I hope my life isn't too boring. It won't always be me writing. Some of my Alters love to journal and adore the idea of being able to be heard. This will be their chance. Welcome to our diary. We hope you enjoy the ride <3. 



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